I live in a packed housing around Tanah Abang, Jakarta. Every morning my friend and I catch a taxi or a bajaj in the end of the alley. Unfortunately, at the end of the alley there are several motorcycle (ojek) drivers who always disturbing woman intentionally.<div>One afternoon I walked home and I realized one of them bothered me by making such whistle and called me names, his friends backed him up and they laughed everytime this one man called me. I turned my head and asked him 'what?' he stopped and realized I was not afraid.&nbsp;</div><div>I repeated 'what?' with my flat cold expression face. He awkwardly said 'oh, nothing' I added 'stop bothered women' he mumbled under his breath but I didn't care.</div><div>One time, the same gang bothered my friend in a whole new level, they commented how short her skirt and how sultry she looked like, my friend never catch taxi from those ojek driver area ever since.</div><div>Start from the repeatedly events of insulting, bothering women, or other actions intended to make women uncomfortable.&nbsp;</div><div>I tested it once, the ojek drivers won't bother me if I walk with a man.</div><div>I asked my boy friends and none of them experienced the same situation as we do.</div><div>In another story, women being the victims for sexual assault when walking in the street around September 2015, some men with motorcycle grabbed women breast while the women walking in the street.</div><div>The conclusion is, women is looked as weak creatures or even don't matter so people in the street easily make us as jokes and others (as in men) who see it permissively let it happened.</div><div>I &nbsp;wonder if there is a safe street for women in Indonesia. I wonder if those men will walk easily and think it is okay if the situation is changed: they become the object of jokes because we think men are weak.</div>